
Let me just start by saying…To all of you that know me on a personal level, you know that I have knocked this part time job with Mt. Pleasant Parks and Rec for the last month b/c it has been…shall we say…a HUGE HASSEL! I have loved the concept and idea from the beginning. Working with kids with disabilities completely changes how you see your life and the world you live in. It is an amazing opportunity to change or influence a life and to step into, if just for a moment, the life of a child or parent who struggles with finding a way to fit into main stream America as much as they can.
So we have started our softball season. Not too many athletes have turned up, but it has never been a huge turnout for any of the “Unified” sports. They are trying to grow, which is why I was brought on board. This Saturday was our first game and I have been pretty successful at booking teams to play us. We have to rely on little league baseball and softball teams to volunteer to play us since there isn’t a large enough group of unified athletes with disabilities to form more than one team per age group.
This Saturday, however, I had to do a little begging of my Carrabba Micos to play our older team. Ok…I really didn’t have to beg, but I did have to ask, and ask again with a sweeter smile and then remind several times. No big deal right? WRONG!!!!! Let me explain something to all of you who have never been lucky enough to work in the food industry. Servers/Bartenders work late, stay out all night and sleep until it is time to work the next day. I’m not kidding. Especially those who are just in school and have no other responsibilities, such as kids or day jobs. Asking young adults to get up early on Saturday morning and make a 30 minute drive to play some softball with a few kids with disabilities is asking a lot. Don’t get me wrong, I respect most of the people I work with, but I was very cautious of who I was asking this huge favor of. Friday night, I reminded again and told them to please not make a fool of me. If they didn’t show, we couldn’t play.
Saturday morning…I was shocked. To my disbelief, I had more Carrabba employees there than unified athletes. We had the BEST time. And I actually think the athletes with disabilities kicked Carrabba’s butt!! Joking aside, my heart was touched. I saw a different side to these “friends” of mine and I owe big time favors. If any of you read this…Thanks so much for giving of yourself for the happiness of some well deserving kids. This is what makes our town great. I can look at my job with Carrabba’s completely differently knowing that people there really do care more about others than themselves.
Not only was I grateful, but so were the kids. From what I understand there was a little smack talking going around, some unidentified distractions and a little man (Kiser) thrown on the Carrabba’s team for a little twist. This too was a great opportunity for Kiser to see and understand that everyone is different and just being different is OK!! Learning that NORMAL is a relative term is not something they teach in 1st grade. What a great lesson for people to learn instead of ASS -U- ME ing that b/c people have disabilities they can’t fit in or play sports. Our differences is what makes us special, no matter what the ABILITY or disability. It is about the person first!!!
If you have never volunteered or worked with kids with disabilities…try it out. If you live in the Charleston area and are looking for a great time and a life changing experience, check us out. www.townofmountpleasant.com. Look for the unified sports. If you are somewhere else, find your parks and rec and consider volunteering. It will rock your world.